Monday, March 28, 2011

5 Things

Number 5
On March 22nd we had our 24-week doctor's appointment and got to hear his heart beating again. Yes, 24 weeks = 6 months already! He's getting stronger and stronger and bigger and bigger. Each day and time I hear him I am just so amazed at our small wonder God gave us.

Number 4
Friday night we had dinner with my brother Bobby and my sister Lillian. Afterwards I talked everyone into a much-needed ice cream run, and following that peanut was quite active. I think he's like me and loooves ice cream and sugar. My dad (peanut's papou) got to feel him move! And he jumped up pumped his fast and screamed "YESSS!" He was so excited and it was probably one of the funniest moments.

Number 3
Saturday I went to a photography class offered by the photographer who will be doing our maternity pictures! It was a lot of fun and so exciting because I can now sorta understand the fancy new camera we bought. We had been eyeing the fancy specimen of a Canon for awhile and now that peanut's closer to his arrival we invested in a nice camera to take a million trillion pictures of him!

Number 2
Today I got to have lunch with this lovely lady and of course her dog Ava (snapped with my iPhone). Peanut's Aunt Tricia has been living in D.C. since the end of December. We've all missed her so much. It was good to see that she hasn't changed much... she's still the crazy, sarcastic, loud, and wonderful sister I love. She even got to feel peanut move while we were together. She was so excited!


Number 1
This weekend we celebrated my Yiayia (grandma) and peanut's ProYiayia's (great grandma) 89th birthday! What a fun-filled, blessed day! It was quite the celebration as my mom's family never does anything small or with half-effort. There were 40 plus people there, and not all of us were able to make it. Yiayia tells me every time I see her that my Popou is surely smiling in heaven because he not only loves Derek and I and wanted us to start a family, but he loooved a pregnant woman. She always says that he thought pregnant women were the most beautiful... and that explains why she was pregnant 5 times! Although, the best part of all was my sweet little second cousin Calista, who is 3, gave peanut a book. She gave him her favorite book "Guess How Much I Love You" and told me to make sure I "tell him I love him every day, from the moon and back." Seriously I cried because I don't even know his face, but love him so much already!!!! Thanks cousin Calista and I can't wait for you to play with him too!

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Yeah!!!!

Peanut's bedding came today! Nice job Restoration Hardware, it came over 1 month earlier than promised! Now we are pretty much decided on the paint color...


Yes, for those of you who knew I was debating between a mocha and blue.... softer blue/gray in the form of "Lunar Eclipse" looks way better. And husband, see it and hear it just this once: you were right.

Monday, March 21, 2011

5 Things

Number 5
Got some of the house painted in preparation for the baby! Here are some before and afters....





Number 4
Went to sushi this week with my brother and sister and of course Derek. Lots of laughs and great conversation. I love spending time with peanut's soon-to-be Aunt Lillian and Uncle Bobby (how weird is that to say?!).

Number 3
Also went out to Derek's dad's house (um peanut's GRANDPA!) to celebrate Uncle Adam's 19th birthday! Had a very wonderful time and couldn't help but looking at the 4 boys and how much I love each of them. Peanut has so much to look forward to with all of his uncles. They are an entertaining bunch of characters.

Number 2
Daddy Derek got his son a present.... I know I know "wait until after the shower!" But he you see he got it from some incentive points he earned via work. And believe me there's tons this baby still needs!





Number 1
Sunday I went to my best friend's other baby shower. It was so nice to be invited and be a guest at a shower not the hostess. I am overjoyed and can't wait to meet her son. Definitely a huge blessing on the way and it makes me cry just thinking of him!

Friday, March 18, 2011

The Nursery

Let me just tell you that dreaming of a nursery is way too fun. I have had "fun" decorating our home, but really I have a hard time deciding what I like and where it should go, etc. You see, I just like too many things. But in starting to think of my little prince's room... I really have had fun. When I imagine my son I think of him as a miniature version of my husband... and seriously it not only melts my hurt but make me so excited. Therefore I think the nursery of my imagination, I mean OUR imaginations, is designed with a lot of Derek's tastes and likes in mind. If you know Derek, you know he loves cars. I don't think you get it... the guy bleeds motor oil. But no he doesn't really like Nascar, even though it's fun to tease him he's a redneck. He loves road racing - specifically European racing. And being that he literally watches the full 24 hours of Le Mans, I have come to like it too. (But shhh don't tell him that because if I want him to change the channel....) So we've begun planning peanut's nursery around all of that: a classic, vintage racing room. We picked out the furniture and no sooner did his ProYiayia (great grandma), Yiayia and Papou/Grandpa buy it! Which first, thank you mom and dad. We are so grateful because it's just beautiful and he will have it forever. No really, for-e-ver. And Yiayia, we are so grateful. I love that you have the tradition of buying the crib for your grandbabies.

So we have this little inspiration board I quickly did to show you what we're thinking thus far:


The 3 posters are reproduction prints of vintage racing posters. Derek has loved those for years and now I am finally letting him put them up in our house. The 3 prints will be in some espresso frames... all equal sizes of course. They are pretty beautiful graphics and very colorful. Not to mention, I think they will be something that can grow with him and not just "nursery" ish. The zinc letters at the bottom right will spell out his name... once we decide on that.  We will still have plenty of little things to add but this is our ideas thus far. Oh, and the bedding is also quite sophisticated for a little guy, it's European menswear-inspired  from Restoration Hardware kinda looks like houndstooth suiting materials on the bed skirt. Now, to halt you before you think that's not very kiddish... well that's kinda that point. We don't exactly care for the blown-up, cartoon-y cars that you see out there. It's not exactly our taste and we want to keep this classy folks. But I am sure it will have piles upon piles of legos and Matchbox cars in a short while.... and I kinda can't wait for that.

I'm so pregnant....

.... that this morning when making my breakfast bagel (yes I indulged so hush) I put the cream cheese in a Ziploc and then put it back in the same drawer we keep the baggies. I went and sat down and started eating. Lo and behold suddenly I realized I had put it in the drawer... not in the refrigerator. Gosh.

Hope I made you laugh.

Monday, March 14, 2011

5 Things

Being that this past week we were on a semi-vacation to Hawaii this post will all be pretty much vacation-related. Hope it doesn't bore you folks.

Number 5
We traveled safely on our first family plane ride! Yeah, so peanut's still on the inside but it was still fun to say he went on a trip with us, went in the Pacific Ocean (oh man was the water beautiful) and even got some sunlight finally! (Yeah, my extraordinarily white belly is now just semi-white.)

Number 4
Came home to our house still standing. (Thanks Dad and Clint for checking on Patina. She appreciates it too.) No major issues to fix... except the alarm. Which had some sort of cellular back-up failure and beeped the whole time. But that's been fixed already today by the wonderful, albeit late, alarm man who came early this a.m.

Number 3
I got to see my husband "in action" this week. You see our trip was actually business-related because Derek's company offers customers an incentive trip each year. If his customers reach a high volume of sales, they qualify for these trips that are pretty much all-expense paid. This year he was asked to attend. He was responsible for entertaining the customers, picking up the tab when we were out, and generally hosting other guests. It was amazing to see him in this role. Yes, I have heard him on the phone with customers and he talks about all of the problems or his typical day. But one thing I really noted about him, after almost 9 whopping years together, is that he is probably one of the most honest, hardworking people I have ever met and known. His customers absolutely love him and even attribute their successes to him. In watching him with them, he never changes who he is, puts on a "show" or acts like some scheezy salesman telling jokes. He is so kind, considerate, and very real. He treats his customers with a great deal of respect and tries hard not only to please them, but get to know them so that he can service them better. He really shows a genuine interest in their successes not only from a business perspective, but because he knows they are family-run businesses and he genuinely cares about their welfare. And it make me so proud. So I hope I am not bragging here, but remember one day I will share this blog with peanut. So son, I want you to know what an incredibly honest, genuine, and hardworking man your daddy is and has always been.

Numbers 2 & 1
I am cheating because I think this deserves two (and it's my blog so I get to say so!). Though our trip was so wonderful and we met some amazing people, it was also a crazy one. March 10, 2011 was a bizarre day. I have already told this story to so many people but that's ok I will tell it once more so skip ahead if you want to. Thursday we took Derek's customers back to the airport, said goodbye and picked up or rental car. We decided to head to the Haleakala volcano crater that afternoon since it was the final thing we had not done on the island. We were on our way back down (which is when Derek felt peanut move!) and headed to the hotel to just relax. We decided to hang out and lay low for the rest of the night when Derek's brother Grant texted us randomly that Japan had this huge earthquake and there was now a tsunami warning in Hawaii. To be honest, we laughed it off because we hadn't heard anything about it there. We turned on the news and it mentioned Japan but nothing in Hawaii. Lo and behold a few minutes later,  the Pacific Ocean Center came on and reported the possibility of a tsunami hitting the islands. So we continued watching for updates and suddenly they confirmed the possibility of 6 foot waves hitting Maui. To put in to perspective, Japan's first wave was at the time estimated at 13. That was roughly half the size... but Maui is like 1/20 the size of Japan. Uh oh. So we decided to pack our bags up and put together a to-go bag of snacks, water, sunscreen and hats, and essentials. The news said the first things to go would be power and water so Derek (my genius husband who is better than a Boy Scout he's like some awesome Man Scout) filled the bath tub with water. We headed to get some cash and determine our plan for evacuating or staying. We went downstairs and it was panic. People running around, buying all the food in the Sundries shop, trying to leave and call people, etc. By this time however we could no longer call out or text and the Wi-fi was jammed up and we couldn't communicate with anyone. But I remembered (see I did contribute somehow) we could plug his laptop in to the room's ethernet. We used it to text  and e-mail our families from the Web (an amazing resource by the way). We looked up elevation levels on the island in case we had to get to high ground and there was nowhere safe except Haleakala (over 1 hour away). We knew there was no way to get there on the one-lane highway now because panic had officially ensued and people were literally trying to flee. They didn't realize that streets had been closed except police-escorted evacuation. The hotel manager then came to our room and said no one can leave. The hotel has a tsunami emergency plan and moved us from the 2nd floor to the 5th. She explained that as long as we were above the 4th we'd be fine but to be prepared and "do NOT go to sleep." Awesome. Ok, so Derek kept his cool. Me... not so much. Ask peanut one day about his momma's irregular heart beat on that day. Pregnant + scared + super tired at 2:30 a.m. = BAD.  So "it" was supposed to hit at 3:07 a.m. and it didn't happened at that time. We set up our vigil around the TV watching but it was the same info. over and over. Because we didn't see or hear anything we learned from the TV that it did happen closer to 4:00 a.m. and even then because of the island's position to the east of Kaui it didn't hit West Maui as hard. The water did rise about 6 ft. but it was not an actual wave which is what really brings the destruction. The brunt of it did hit the North side of the island and cause significant damage, but we were so blessed to be out of harm's way. What a scary night. The next day the two nosy Markos's went scouting for damage and to see what happened. The streets had finally reopened and there was loads of debris, sand and water. Lahaina (Front Street) had flooded but water was receeding. We headed to one beach and saw locals taking pictures and talking. They all told us that they had never experienced such craziness and some of them hadn't even been home yet. They were evacuated to the airport area and spent the entire night awake in rooms without a cot or chair. They explained the ocean was so irradic and unpredicatable, showing us that the tide was so low it exposed rocks and coral they had never known was there. We sat and watched the current change directions in small whirlpools, then suddenly it would swell up so fast. It was strange because there were no waves (it was more like it just slowly rose and fell). I am so thankful that the Lord kept us is his hands, that he guided us to stay stay at the hotel, kept Derek calm, and we were absolutely fine and safe. It could have been something, but it turned out to really be nothing in comparison to Japan. So while I count my blessings I will also pray for the people who really were affected.

Oh, and once I go through our pictures I will post them to prove our trip was on the whole, wonderful!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Finally....

... Daddy Derek felt his son move! We are still on vacation in Hawaii and today we were driving down the Haleakala Highway after seeing the volcano crater. Our son was practicing his afternoon martial arts routine or perhaps gymnastics flipping routine and I reached over and grabbed Derek's hand. He has been getting quite upset lately that after every time I insist he touches the bump, peanut stops moving. But today, he was so active I grabbed his hand and put in on there. He suddenly yells out "WHOAH! Was that him?" I looked at him and smiled saying "TOLD YOU!" Then we both had a moment... some tears might have been shared by an overly emotional momma and Derek was smiling probably for a good 4 minutes. He was thrilled. 

Monday, March 7, 2011

5 Things

This week's amazing things and blessings....

Number 5
Today, March 8 peanut is officially the size of a papaya. Thought that was fitting for number 4!

Number 4
A little trip to Maui this week... YIPEE! Although it's mostly a business trip for the hubs, I am so excited to get away for a bit and celebrate his accomplishment and a bit of a baby-moon before July hits!

Number 3
God's goodness and guidance this past week. It feels like I had soooo much to do getting ready to go on our trip and I was hopefully able to accomplish it all. I also had a very successful bridal show this past Sunday and I am so grateful that the Lord led me to do it even though I had my doubts. I am so grateful that He sometimes takes over. And more importantly, thank you friends and especially family who helped us get everything in order and (who are checking on the house while we're gone)!

Number 2
Our active little baby is moving and kicking so much now. Every day I can feel his movements and especially in the evenings around dinner. He moves a lot and I really feel it when I am calm and sitting down. All of the books say I should start being able to sense his "waking and sleeping patterns." I am still figuring this one out because the little guy seems to have lots of energy all day! He's definitely a sleeper like his momma and usually doesn't move lots and have lots of energy in the mornings until he's got some fuel. Meaning, again, he's like me in that he gets going after breakfast and something to drink! Then he keeps moving lots throughout the day, especially though in the evenings. It's all truly amazing!!!! But sad that Derek's has been able to feel it yet. I grab his hand every time and put it there and the little guy stops. It's like he senses his dad and already is playing a game with him.

Number 1
Derek finished his schooling for his bachelors of science in business from the University of Redlands. Allow me one moment to brag and then cue the standing ovation! I am truly so proud of him because he not only dedicates himself 100% to me, his family, and his full-time job, but for the past 2 1/2 years he has been going to school full time. He has worked so hard to put himself through school and successfuly finished as of Tuesday. His capstone project was a 50-page paper that was quite the project around here. Redlands is a wonderful university, but with that means tough curriculum. And I am ridiculously proud of him and that he will have around a 3.5!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

What's in a name?

In addition to the usual "How are you feeling?" or "How far along are you?" the question of late has been "What is his name?"and "When can we stop calling him 'peanut?'" Sorry darling readers we don't have a straight answer on that one. I come from a family that its tradition to name children after another member of the family as an honor to the elderly. My mom's side (the Greeks) is chalk full of repeats - My mom Nikki is named after her dad, my Papou Nicholas, and there are three Lillians named after my Yiayia Lillian. I am named after my Papou's sister Madeline, who passed before I was born. And then my brother Bobby is named after my dad and grandpa Robert. You get the point. Then on Derek's side the "tradition" is similar. His dad Tom is named after Grandpa Thomas. Additionally, there's a tradition to have a nickname with initials. Derek John (D.J.), Clinton West (C-dub),Adam Jordan (AJ), Grant Thomas (GT).. you get the picture. So needless to say it's very important to have a name with "meaning" to our families.

But more importantly, I want our son to have a beautiful, strong, and professional name. Peanut can't be out there conquering the world with a name like... well... peanut. I would love his name to be Biblical or have a Christian meaning. But it seems we're having a really hard time with it. So we're down to about two names and seriously it's tough because we each like different names! We're not sure but at this point (and who knows it may still change) it's down to: Blake Robert and Cole Thomas.

Blake in Old English means "black" or "dark" but can also mean "blac" meaning "brightness or shining." Hmm... that's an oxymoron to me but ok. Robert is Germanic and it's a family name, clearly honoring my grandpa, dad, and brother. Robert means  "bright fame" (yes fame not flame!). While Cole has two meanings. One being "dark" and the other as a derivative of Nicholas meaning "victorious." Thomas is also a family name, honoring Derek's dad and grandpa. It means "twin." Well like I said I wanted the names to have meaning, but clearly a literal definition isn't going to happen if we go with one of these. But hey, atleast we had good intentions. Because as it is if we go with either our son's name could mean "dark." Eeks. (Well he will be the light of my life! Just accept that I am cheesy!)
 
To be honest we were deciding whether or not to keep it all secret but it's honestly too hard not to tell the people you love and get feedback. And so far we're happy because no one has had a negative or adverse reaction to either. Or maybe people are just nice about it. We may just decide to keep driving ourselves and family crazy and wait until he's here to see what he really should be named. Or we'll just pray for divine intervention since HE already knows his name!